Recall

Never make someone your everything, this would be a big mistake in life if the someone has someone else who is everything to him/her ;) Cause when they're gone, you'll have nothing. It's okay to lose your pride over someone you love, but don't lose someone you love over your pride.

ok the below i got in a fwded email im jus pasting it here :-

I hated going to weddings. All the grandmas would poke me saying "you're next!" they stopped doing that when I started doing it to them at funerals.

Life is all about moving on. But somewhere in between moving on and moving in, you have to learn how to say goodbye. And that by far is the hardest part of life.

i guess if you don't jump you'll never know if you can fly

Just because I have to let you go doesn't mean that I won't think about you every step I take away from you.

I hope you know that you are my close friend. Thanks for the best time of my life.

if you hold back feelings because you're afraid of getting hurt, you end up hurting, anyway.

i never asked for it to be over. Then again, I never asked for it to begin. That's the way it is with life, some of the most beautiful days come completely by chance. But even the most beautiful days have their sunsets.

Maybe that's why we hold on as hard as we do, we just can't believe such a miracle can happen to us twice...but it can, someday you'll find it again. -Someone Like You

Regards
AjayKerala

Courtesy : xanga.com

sicko

ma mind is sick today...all i know is im getting spoiled!!! screw everything:@:@:@

who the F r u ?

do this everyday go to the mirror and value urself! ask this who the fuck r u ? whats ur value ? what r u ? preferebly do this in the morning after taking shower...really helps to stay where you are and you will only think upto what you are and wont think so HIGH of yrself!!!!! which is not good for anyone..

Relationship

Each relationship between two persons is absolutely unique. That is why you cannot love two people the same. It simply is not possible. You love each person differently because of who they are and the uniqueness that they draw out of you.

If you don't go after what you want; you'll never get it.
If you don't ask; the answer is always no.
If you don't step forward; you'll always be in the same place.

Every man needs a women when his life is a mess,
because the queen protects the king, just like in a game of chess.

Sometimes i feel you'd rather watch me drown ;
than get your hands wet.

But sometimes, we just have to be happy with what people can offer us. Even if it’s not what we want, at least it’s something, you know?
And then..if thats not good enough - then maybe fate's trying to tell you something.

You deserve to be with somebody who makes you happy.
Somebody who doesn't complicate your life.
Somebody who won't hurt you.

If you follow the crowd, you might get lost in it.

What Can You Do in One Day?

I found this story amazing. Hope it gives you all something to ponder J

One day, when I was a freshman in high school,

I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school.

His name was Kyle.

It looked like he was carrying all of his books.

I thought to myself, "Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday?

He must really be a nerd."

I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.

As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him.

They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt.

His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him

He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes

My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him and as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye.

As I handed him his glasses, I said, "Those guys are jerks. "

They really should get lives.

" He looked at me and said, "Hey thanks!"

There was a big smile on his face.

It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.

I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived.

As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before.

He said he had gone to private school before now.

I would have never hung out with a private school kid before

We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books.

He turned out to be a pretty cool kid.

I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends

He said yes.

We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him.

Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again.

I stopped him and said, "Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!

" He just laughed and handed me half the books.

Over the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends

When we were seniors, we began to think about college.

Kyle decided on Georgetown , and I was going to Duke.

I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem.

He was going to be a doctor, and I was going for business on a football scholarship.

Kyle was valedictorian of our class.

I teased him all the time about being a nerd.

He had to prepare a speech for graduation.

I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak

Graduation day, I saw Kyle.

He looked great.

He was one of those guys that really found himself during high school.

He filled out and actually looked good in glasses.

He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him.

Boy, sometimes I was jealous. !

Today was one of those days.

I could see that he was nervous about his speech.

So, I smacked him on the back and said, "Hey, big guy, you'll be great!"

He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and smiled.

" Thanks," he said.

As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began

"Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years.

Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but mostly your friends...

I am here to tell all of you that being a
friend to someone is the best gift you can give them.

I am going to tell you a story."

I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of the first day we met.

He had planned to kill himself over the weekend.

He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home.

He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile.

"Thankfully, I was saved.

My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable."

I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment.

I saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile.

Not until that moment did I realize it's depth.

Never underestimate the power of your actions.

With one small gesture you can change a person's life.

For better or for worse.

Destiny puts us all in each other's lives to impact one another in some way.

FW: true story....eerie... give me goose bumps

This is a real story of a young college girl who passed away last month.

Her name was Priya. She was hit by a truck.
She was working in a call center. She had a boy friend named Shankar.
Both of them were true lovers. They always talked on the phone.

You would never find her without handphone. In fact she also changed her cell connection from M-One to Starhub, so that both of them can be on the same network, and save on the cost. She used to spend half of the day talking with shankar. Priya's family knew about their relationship. . Shankar was very close to Priya's family as well. (Just imagine their love) .

Before she passed away she always told her friends 'If I pass away please burn me with my handphone' she also said the same thing to her parents. After her death, people cld'nt carry her body, A lot of them tried to do so,but still can't. Everybody had tried to carry the body, the results were the same.

Eventually, they called a person known to one of their neighbours, who can speak with the soul of dead person and who was a friend of her father. He took a stick and started speaking to himself slowly.. After a few minutes, he said 'this girl misses something here.' Then her friends told that person about her intentions to burn her with her phone.

He then opened the grave box and place her phone and sim card inside the casket. After that they tried to carry the body. It was then moved easily and they then carried her into the van.
All of us were shocked. Priya's parents did not inform Shankar that Priya had passed away..

After 2 weeks Shankar called Priya's mom.....

Shankar :.....'Aunty, I'm coming home today. Cook something nice for me.

Don't tell Priya that I'm coming home today, I wanna surprise her.'

Her mother replied..... 'You come home first, I wanna tell you something very important.'
After he came, they told him the truth about Priya. Shankar thinks that they were playing a fool. He was laughing and said 'don't try to fool me - tell Priya to come out, i have a gift for her. Please stop this nonsense'. Then they show him the original death certificate to him.

They gave him proof to make him believe. (Shankar started to sweat) He said... 'Its not true. We spoke yesterday.. She still calls me.

Shankar was shaking. Suddenly, Shankar's phone rang.. 'see this is from Priya, see this....' he showed the phone to priya's family. all of them told him to answer. he talked using the loudspeaker mode.
All of them heard his conversation.

Loud and clear, no cross lines, no humming. It is the actual voice of Priya & there is no way others could use her sim card since it is nailed inside the grave box

They were so shocked and asked for the same person's (who can speak with the soul of dead person) help again. He brought his master to solve this matter.

He & his master worked for 5 hours.

Then they discovered one thing which really shocked them....

Starhub has the best coverage
'Where ever you go, our network follows!!!'

LAME!

Keeping eyes Blind

I dunno how it is possible only in Singapore that they control the media unlike the other countries the news published here all comes thru a filter and only selected items gets published one good thing abt this is unlike other countries here pple dont get to read sad news on the front page, a recent incident was the capture of terrorist Mas Selamat Kastari who escaped earlier from the singapore jail was arrested at JB last friday, Malaysia(i really wonder didn he had no other place go ?) morning i was surprised when alex(my ceo) asked whether i know abt the arrest of masselamat i was like ermm is that guy still alive...

Full story : http://www.straitstimes.com/Breaking%2BNews/Singapore/Story/STIStory_374034.html

Today Mandy's last day had a fantastic lunch at SushiME! with victor, sandhya, mandy, juliana, daphnie, sharon firstime i had a meal with them anyways so yea farewell to mandy pang working with her for past 2+ yrs someone i had at workplace to quarell and to splash my sarcasm and lmao jokes...i will miss you...good luck babes..

to be continued...

Whinney Wednesday

Never satisfied never happy and never ending expectations arghh! gosh this really screwed ma mind since early morning and a good piece of advise i received today from my godfather is that we are all man we should have strong balls don't be like female who worry alot. Anyways balls getting more stronger with increased loans and debts from(RBS, HSBC, BOC, ST, DBS, UOB, OCBC etc) but when comparing with other bigger problems like this (http://www.cleveland.com/medical/index.ssf/2009/05/face_transplant.html) i dont think i have a bigger issue in my life to worry about or to be sd about...so yea be happy with what you have and this piece of news article really made me laugh out loud (http://news.asiaone.com/News/AsiaOne+News/Malaysia/Story/A1Story20090505-139278.html) ROFL.

BusyMonday

I been working in IT since 9yrs now it has become a shared resource and now i have been working for multiple companies which is really is splitting me apart...anyways it was such a busy Monday i even forgot to check my mails whole day...had a fantastic time with ma victor bro and meow at Jaz bar listening to sleepy band music and mouthful foood...