That's probably the best advice I've ever heard. I mean, when you think about it, it's totally true. You spend all your time putting someone else first in your life. You wonder what they're thinking, are they happy, are they sad, what can you do to make them happy. And to them, you're nothing more than an afterthought. Someone to warm their bed once a week. A weekend girlfriend or boyfriend or something like that. They spend maybe one day with you on the weekend. And then when Monday comes, they ignore you like you don't exist. MAYBE they'll send you a text message or an email. MAYBE they'll answer the phone if you call. But, more often than not, they don't think about you. You get frustrated and sad and wonder what did you do that was so wrong. What can you do differently to get them to look at you the way you look at them. But the truth is, nothing. When it's gone, it's gone.
All you can do is stop making someone a priority when you are nothing more than their option. Life is too short to waste time, energy and make him/her your priority while you aren't a priority in their lives. We have to put energy ONLY on someone who do the same efforts like you to be with you. How many time have your wasted energy on someone and they aren't even aware how much you work hard to make things work and look at you at the end as if you're crazy or intense ?
All you can do is stop making someone a priority when you are nothing more than their option. Life is too short to waste time, energy and make him/her your priority while you aren't a priority in their lives. We have to put energy ONLY on someone who do the same efforts like you to be with you. How many time have your wasted energy on someone and they aren't even aware how much you work hard to make things work and look at you at the end as if you're crazy or intense ?
